After a certain point in life you have layers of protection and pleasing to create a home and family.
It takes time to peel back the onion to find the core of your being. As you do this process, you will carefully find what truly makes you happy based on who you are inside, what you truly want.
Sometimes this change can be difficult as you remove obstacles and the clutter holding you back.
The good news is that as you practice doing what you want, you find your joy and choices are easier and wiser for your unique being. You choice to be better inspires others and it ripples across the energy field.
May the change you wish be found within your own heart.